So, I could use $200 from the super and $200 from the cash and the fund would own my home but I can live in it and essentially once I am 60 I can sell it? What happens if I want to sell it before retiring age?
Yep - you would put your cash fund into the super and then buy the house. But remember, YOU don't own it, the (your self managed) super fund does.

If you sell it, its not you selling it - its the super fund, so the super fund may be up for capital gains etc.......... (as it needs to be purchased as an investment).....

get a good planner hun!!!