sorry if i came across as rude at all westy - it just seems to be that a lot of the public tell their friends that everyone is entitled - it definitely has restrictions (which primarily impact SAHP's unfortunately)
Another option that may be for you is getting a nanny at home. If you have 3 children under school age you can do it and the government will still pay you the child care rebates. Contact your local family day care office, they'll be able to give you more details. It could work out far cheaper and far better for your kids to stay at home with their own carer.
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