Wow ladies thanks again for sharing your stories. I think what i might do is get DH to sit down with me and read through your posts and to see how he feels then. You have all explained it much better than i ever could from true real life experiences.

I will also give Aust Unity a call and see what they can do for me. DS1 has kinder this afternoon and my other 2 should be in bed (hopefuly) so i will do it then.