Misty - sorry that is how I read it - but I agree - its all OUR money and gets spent on the same things just its kept at the moment in seprate accounts - but its not My money or His money. We also find that any spare money that goes into my account that isnt taken by the house payment or cars then becomes "savings" so we can use all the money out of DH's account and still know that we have a little extra in mine that will not get used - unless its needed for some reason.

Sorry if I made you feel bad Misty - I miss ready your post.

Kate