I think it totally depends on how many guests, location, theme etc - Ours was just over $30k not including our Honeymoon in Fiji... We had about 60 guests, a STUNNING location on the water in Brisbane, absolutely amazing food from one of Brisbane's best restaurants, our bridal party stayed in 2 gorgeous Brand New Beachside Penthouses for 2 nights and I didn't scrimp on much, had the 13 seater limo, designer dresses, big bouquets, award makeup artists and cake maker etc but I did manage to get good deals! We didn't have a budget but I know we could have spent much more than $30k, it just worked out well that everything I chose wasn't completely over the top price wise! We had an absolutely AMAZING Day! But I do think that we would have had just as an amazing day if it was just us 2 on a little island somewhere because really, even with all the glitz and glam, all that mattered to us was each other... Awww getting all soppy now haha

I do totally think it depends on alot of things though... How long is a piece of string?