I don't have an issue with the word delivered. I say "i delivered my girls at so and so hospital". I take it to mean the baby was on the inside and then arrived on the outside. And i feel powerful knowing i delivered my baby. I don't think it has anything to do with who's there in my mind. But i will happily use birthed, just wanted to say how i felt!

I am right there with the demand feeding though. I don't like that term much.