Thank you everyone.
Got home about an hour ago. Was ready to leave this morning but the pead made us wait all day before coming & giving us the final all clear. I was ****ed off about that. She was in the same room with us when we bathed him & DH even said he is ready, wont dress him yet if you could do the check etc, She said Ok & THEN LEFT only to return THREE hours later!
stuffed up our going home plan etc. but home now. other kids are doing well with their new brother. Isla likes the babee & his big dog toy he got given lol. Glenn loves patting his soft hair (yep, scored onee with hair this time!! not heaps but its hair) Evan is a little over bearing want to hold him & carry him places & getting upset that he can't walk around with him. Hard to explain that I know he will be careful but he is just too small right now.

he has a little issue with his testies, they haven't dropped yet but there is no sign on a hernia so just a wait & see for now. Thats a little scary as I haven't had any abnormalities before. Im not worried as such but still.

but all in all he is good I am good & will post pics & birth story a little later.