Thanks everyone!!! I can tell you thought that it's put me off having 3 kids for sure!!! Her daughter is six and has another son who is 18 months so its a bit hectic atm. I'm helping out as much as I can though, Ness was alseep on the couch last night when he woke for a feed and she just moaned "you do it" and believe me if I could I would haha!

Its bringing on a few regrets but I guess thats to be expected, would have been nice for them to grow up together. I often find myself staring at the bouncer when he's asleep thinking 'he could be mine'.