Hi there,

I think what have have written is perfect!

However, I might just add....

Don't just assuem that because she was aiming for a Natural Birth that she is completely devastated with having to have had a c-sect.

You mentioned that she had quite a long labour and by the time it was decided that she should go for a c-sect, she might have come to some kind of understanding that it was the right thing to do.

I think you really need to let her lead the conversation. If there is disappointment, you will pick up on it.

All you can do is be a good friend to her and just be there. Which you already are!