Hi i am 36 weeks pregnant with #2 and am really unsure on which way to go. to give you a bit of background quickly #1 was 10 pounds and i had a 4th degree tear and spent alot of time in surgery without my baby being stitched up. and for obvious reasons dont want to do that again. so we have been since i found out i was pregnant said depending on the size of this baby would depend whether or not i risked having another natural. so i not long found out that she is sitting at around 7 pounds atm and my mind straight away went c-section. BUT now im thinking if the hospital will induce me at 38 weeks then maybe i would be ok with having another natural??? im soooo confused i havnt slept in 2 days because i just dont no whats going to be best for baby AND me! i was told if i had another bad tear i could be left with permanent damage (which scares the crap out of me because i still have tear slightly everytime i use to toilet for #2's)

i just really want some help from you ladies please ive about run out of time and im no closer to a decision on my own and my husband is happy to support me in whatever what i want but he thinks that because of the possibilities of long term damage he is all for the c-section route. so please fill me with you knowledge i need to make a decision.