Thanks guys i hvae gone ahead and booked in for a c-section all though the stupid hospital has booked me in for 1 on the 25th, by my charting im due the 26th and by my 12 week scan they put it at the 29th and with DS1 i went spontaneously at 39weeks and they couldnt have cared less so i told them more than likely i will be seeing them earlier than that lol. but im at ease with my decision to have 1 and im really looking forward to having her. thank you all for your advice and input though.