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thread: Babys Father threatening to take me to court over the birth...ADVICE?!?!

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
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    Hugs xoxox
    I suggest you go and seek legal advice through legal aid - Just so that you are informed and aware.
    Not telling him when you are in labour is probably your safest bet for him not turning up.

    Keep all of your messages and document everything (also keep copies), if he becomes to harrassing or violent this will help in the aid of a DVO. Which will be a little barrier of protection fo ryou, so you can enjoy being pregnant and not having to deal with his tantrums.

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    May 2011
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    General consensus is not tell him I'm on labor.

    I was worried that he *might* have been able to somehow get some legal thing telling me he had to be there.
    But no, I do not plan on telling him I'm in labor if I don't HAVE to.
    If it were upto me, I would like to not tell him for a few months after....but that's unrealistic.
    At least at the hospital there are people around, who can and will tell him and make him get out if he starts anything

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