Hey again all,
I have a question that I don't think I have asked. Well, if I did, I can't remember the answer, 'cos I didn't write it down. No, that is not the pregnancy hormones at play, I'm usually this much of a goose.
During birth/labour (I forget which stage, but I did read it!) is it better to bear down or push when you get that 'natural uncontrollable urge', or to wait until the midwife/Dr tells you to? Also, doing it when it felt natural, wouldn't that generally mean a less traumatic birth for mother and baby?