I had both my DH and my Mum with me at my 2 births, and although I loved having them both there they didn't really focus on what I needed if that makes sense. When your in labour and the midwife says she will be back in 5 and takes 45 then that can be a bit of a stressful time, especially if you are waiting on pain relief or something.

At my next birth I am hoping to do it all naturally (1st 2 were induced) and once again I will have both my mum and my husband there, but will also have a very lovely doula. One that i know I can rely on to go chase the midwife if need be, and look out for the vital signs that I may not be doing as well as I would like. Just the little things that my husband and mother really have no idea about LOL.

There is definitely no need to have support other than your husband if you dont want it. It is a very individual and personal thing.

Love