I have 10.5month old twins and am also a student mid. My twin birth was intervention free, no continuous monitoring, no drugs, no induction, physiological thrid stage, whole labour in shower, both babies born in shower and dh caught twin 1. I fought very hard and had to refuse a lot of things to get the birth i wanted,, had the head ob fromthe whole region sitting out at the desk (which i didnt know until months later) as i was so "non-compliant". You have to remember there are hospital policies clah blah blah but in a public hospital they have no right to refuse care, its negligence, almost all hospitals say they "don't do breech birth" but legally they HAVE to do breech vaginal birth if a woman refuses a c/s. I think if you have your mw who you trust and can advise you then you could go to a public hosp and have the birth you want. I can understand firs thand every one of your worries and am more than happy to chat with you if there is anything you want to talk about.

P.S There is nothing quite like birthing a baby, experiencing that major high and then knowing its not over and you get to experence it all again!! amazing, congrats!!