Great, thanks for the info ladies. I still haven't decided whether I'll go for a c/s or vag yet as I had my doc appt today at the hospital & he suggested I consider a c/s due to medical reasons, I was shocked as I never thought I'd be in the situation where I'd have to consider one (unless emergency) & thats nothing against those who have chosen a c/s, I dont have any problems with that at all, it just wasn't my first choice.

Anyway, I'll have a better think about it & try to make the best decision possible. It's so hard!!!

Thanks again, your replies have been a great help....