I guess i wrote in not so many words lol

MIL is retired MW and both DH are as we call 'tight arses!' lol i guess they look at it as you are having a class with the hospital so what more do you need! Ive already said to SIL (who is also training MW) that its no about the pain, im sure it is a little, but more about how i will react and keep in control, its bad enough i suffer with anixety and panic attacks, so if there is anything i can do to reduce that fear and tention the better, DH woke up this morning and said if you want to do the class then we will.

Then i called him at work as i do in the mornings and he asked me how much lol the reply was well maybe we need to discuss this a little more, after paying so much for so many years of IVF, then the cost of the most expensive OB in the bloody world, me being signed off work and both of us wanting me to be at home for the first two years it all adds up. DH job can change at any time as he works on sites so i guess its all stresses and strains on the family.

Will keep you posted

Mel great to know she is at Monash, were classes weekends or evenings? and do you remember the cost?

Thanks again gals x