Thanks so much for all your answers everyone.

Lulu2 - It makes sense that relaxation would help. I don't recall being particularly tense but of course, I lost my memory while pregnant and haven't seen it since, so it's definitely possible.

AJP - I hadn't thought of acupuncture but it does appeal to me. I will have to write it down so I don't forget when the time comes.

Tobily - I had two lots of gel over 24hrs. No drip. Is that normal?

Starrysky - Yes I have to agree in hindsight. But when it's your first, and the doc is saying your baby is distressed, it's hard not to say 'cut me! cut me now!'

Doudou - Dehydration could have been an issue. I know I don't drink enough. I will remember that.

toomanytoomany - If DD was not positioned well, no-one told me. I haven't heard of the primrose oil used in that way but will look into it. The semen sounds like the fun option in theory, but if I'm as fat and swollen as last time, I don't think it will be my first choice!

Thanks again everyone. You've all given me lots to think about (and try) before rushing into anything next time.