Maddison will be at our next babies birth, Indah too depending on the age etc, but I know now Madfdy would cope fine!!! I should have let her come to Indah's birth, she never asked though & so I assumed she didnt want too, but next time I will offer her the choice & I hope she will come.... Indah was 8.5 hours old when Maddy first met her & that was a precious memory for me!!!