I'm not sure if this is the right place but I'm sure I'll be informed otherwise and where to move it to if it is not

I would very much like my DS to be at the birth of his sibling. There will be two people that will be able to care for him while I am busy with this one as I know that he would need a guardian and also so he can be taken away when needed.

I was wondering what other people views and experiences are. How has their bonding been affected by your decision?