I find the topic of freebirth very interesting. I can completely understand why American women are choosing this option- their birth options are appalling with the high level of medicalisation and infant mortality. But then they have no assistance for any other option. I know things need to improve in Australia but at least we do have publically funded birth centres and even homebirths in some states.

In saying that I'm not saying we should be complacent and settle for what we have- homebirths should be pubically funded and available to all women so that they can access midwife support at home rather than feeling that a freebirth is their only option. This would also ensure that midwives are being paid what they should- they shouldn't feel they need to cap their costs at the baby bonus or something to make themselves affordable. It would even cost the nation less to support homebirths rather than accommodating all births in hospitals.

When deciding on our birth options I really wanted a homebirth but decided on a birth centre with a doula due to the cost. I know we could have spent the BB on a homebirth so at the end of the day this is my choice and something I've made peace with (on the understanding that next time is a homebirth regardless of cost ). I started to freak out about the birth centre though and considered a freebirth for a while. I'm not sure if I could ask my doula to assist us at home- that's a huge responsibility and I don't have the time to study everything I would need to to feel safe birthing my baby unassisted. For now, I'm happy again with our original decision of birth centre so we'll see how we go- I think I have fantastic support in my H and doula.

Freebirth reminds me of my cat and how she'll instantly hide and be by herself when feeling unwell. It seems very primal and natural to be on your own in pain to focus and listen to exactly what your body needs. I admire women who have the confidence to do this as I think it could be a very positive experience.