That is so horrible rosehip fairy, it is the birth of your baby and I don't know why they should get their back up about 'your birth plan.' But they do and it is beyond me why they have the authority to do this.

However I know they do this... i.e. in my case during my last two pregnancies, putting it at the back of my medical file and openly scoffing at it in front of me.

I hope you don't have to go through that again, my therapist (who I have being seeing since PND after 2nd son) suggested I use an A3 flip pad and a niko and for my birth plan and take that in with me!!!