Don’t go private *just* because you have private health insurance

[Floweryfields]

Great letter!

[Shanti]

Good on you!!

I have private health but would never give birth in a private hospital.... no thanks!! You'd have to pay ME to give birth in a private hospital. Even then, not sure I would do it!!

[jackrose]

So great to read your thoughts and your letter.

I especially like this:

So why waste those precious resources on people like me?

Totally agree!! So glad your birthing journeys led to a happy place

[Heaven]

What a great letter!!

[Freya]

Love it and I totally agree with you. I have private health insurance and used it for my first two babies, but my third was under midwifery-led care and I would never ever go back!

[hj1981]

i went private first time and second time and if there is a third time i would go again without a doubt! I can't complain! and i am now doing my prac in that same hospital and love it!

Really nice letter though!

[Epacris]

Thanks everyone!

You know jackrose, I thought damn it, that is a good point, but I didn’t really say it in the letter. So I made one final change and put that bit in about resources and posted them all off yesterday. So I’ve edited my OP with the final, final, final, version.

[~mamaspice~]

Awesome letter! I completely agree that midwifery lead care is the ultimate method for low risk women, (and even some "high risk" women), especially if it's continuity based.
I went private with my first child, for the same reasons as you really. And it was a huge mistake in hindsight. You can't have much more intervention than a CS under a general, all of which could have been completely unnecessary. And it affected my birth choices greatly second time around.

For my second preg I started out going through the public system as I wanted a the best chance of a VBAC. Unfortunatley though, there were no Continuity of care options in the public system for me as I was seen as "high Risk". I did not enjoy seeing a different midwife/ob/registrar at each visit and was told different things each time. I really wanted to build a rapport with my care provider. It was so so imporetant to me that I had a known person caring for me who knew my story and my wishes IYKWIM. So I ended up seeing the senior public hospital Ob at his private practice ( I had heard that he was very hands off and also very pro birth centre) and clicked with him instantly. And although my second birth ended up being a CS (my choice in the end) in a private hosital. It was positive and wonderful and I don't think I would have had as much control if it were in the public system because I wouldn't have had a "known" care provider.

So I guess for me, first preg, going private was a huuuge mistake, but it was a wonderful experience second time around.