Amber - is your mum going to be present for the birth? She might be a great person to have with you as she knows what it takes to get through a drug-free birth. Often mums can be a bad choice for labour support people but if she's strong and willing to help you get through, then she might be a godsend. Of course, as long as she's not going to be the kind of mum who is worried about her baby girl in pain and insists that you use pain relief because it's there