Hi Amber

I have two boys and gave both to both of them without drugs. I used Hypnobirthing and will guarantee to you that birth does not have to be painful. If you believe that it is a natural process, and can get your body completely relaxed, then your body takes over and, without you fighting against the contractions, there is no real pain and no need for drugs. The effectivness of this varies from woman to woman.

I also used the bath to help me relax, and gave birth to my youngest three weeks ago in the water, which was a lovely experience.

Another huge factor in remaining relaxed was having helpful birth companions who knew what I was trying to accomplish and were happy to help me through it. One of my birth companions was also my midwife and this helped tremendously.

Throughout both labours I would have been begging for drugs if I was in pain, but luckily I was not.

Good luck for the rest of your pregnancy and your labour

Mel