Hey Sarah
I had a horrible time giving birth to my first baby so I saw a doula who specialised in hypnobirthing - which was not as hippy and earth mother as I thought it would be.
This was truly amazing in helping me overcome so many of my fears of giving birth to number 2. I cannot reccomend this kind of support enough, it made such a difference in my attitude and approach I even looked forward to her birth (sort of...)