Damit lost my post so I'll try again.

Lori - Hugs sweets. I agree with Trillian that you do learn from experience and there is nothing wrong with wanting "better" next time. For some reason we as mothers tend to put a lot of stress and guilt onto oursevles. I certainly felt concerned about the bond I would have with DD2 as compared with my DD1. I had all sorts of questions and apprehensions going on in my head, actually I still do with this baby.

However, experience has taught me that you will regret some things that you did with your first child and even your second. You bond differently with each child and at different times and you do things with the knowledge that you have at that moment in time. In a sense you are using you past experience to improve and there is nothing wrong with that at all, it means you are growing as a person and a mum.

Lovely you have done such a wonderful job with your little man, don't ever doubt that.