Hi Mel, I had a planned home birth for my first, and it was wonderful.

Education is paramount. I spent countless hours reading birth stories and watching birth videos on YouTube (search for unassisted birth in particular so you can see how amazing a womans body can be)

I had no intervention and no tearing. Labour was 22 hours. It can be done.

I recommend hiring an independent midwife rather than an obstetrician (even if you want to birth in a hospital). Nothing beats the care of someone who comes to your home for visits and can provide after care in your own home as well.

GL. Labour is a journey unique to everyone. There is no right and wrong way.