If she is going to be expressing, having a photo of bub there to look at while she pumps can help with milk supply too. And can she give bub a small teddy or blanket that has her smell on it?
Great suggestion, we gave N a small panda, which sat on her isolete and in her cot when we couldn't be there and she loves it now, I think Panda will be a stayer!

Wish we knew about the drip option Liz, I guess N had enough needles and stuff poked into her, and in the end it didn't matter.

To encourage her suck feeding, we gave her a dummy and held it for her to suck when she was getting tube feed, this encouraged the when I suck I get full, we didn't try this until we transferred but it made a big difference in her suck feeding. We also only gave bottle after boob, on 2 occassions, the rest was tube feeding or boob.