Oh Ella!! I feel your frustration even from here! I'm on my phone so I can see when your EDD was but I get what you mean that you feel she is over...

My DS was a week over and like you I'd tried everything to evict him!!! I think I must have had something mentally going on as I had a massive big cry and went into labour that night. I think I needed to release some emotions!!

Maybe that nasty Dr telling you nothing will change will trigger something for you...