Thanks for your replies ladies.

PZ, I spent all my time labouring with just me and DD1 and I loved it. DH took her out for a couple of hours and I missed her terribly. Even when she woke a couple of times before I went to hospital I went into her, even though the contractions I wanted to be with her. She knew something was up and I remember she would just sit next to me and touch my arm or belly every now and then. Special moments that I love remembering.

DD1 loves hospitals. When she had her operation last year she loved been there, she loved watching all the medical stuff and actually helped the nurse when it came tome to remove her canula.

cassius, thanks for the suggestions, will look them up.

I guess it will all come down to when it happens. If i keep it open to asking her when the time comes and seeing what she says.

MadB, I thought about that so I asked and they said as long as the child/ren are not a distraction or run a mul then they are fine but like you said to have a back up person ready to take them if needed as in like starfish said with an emergency.