Hi Loupy,

I had ARM with my DS and it wasnt too bad, it is uncomfortable and hurts a bit, and feels really gross when the amniotic fluid comes rushing out, but it worked. I was already in labour but things wernt happening fast enough so they ruptured them. I wasnt pressured into it and decided it was time to get things moving so let the MW do it. I didnt need synto as things progressed well after that.

If the doctors choose to ARM ask them to hold off on the synto for a while as sometimes the increased pressure of bubs head on the cervix can be enough to get things started. If it doesnt, then the synto will help bubs be in your arms that much sooner. If you agree with what the doctors say and trust them, then go with it and dont feel bad or think that you have failed or are weak in anyway by agreeing with them if that is what you feel. All in all, the birth, while important to you, is just a small step in a long relationship, so be positive and confident and you will feel successful about your birth no matter how it goes.

You're a strong woman no matter how you bring your baby into this world.
Hugs and good luck.