Hi, I also went public and I will go public again (mainly due to the cost of private health!!). DH wasnt allowed to stay, however we found our hospital to be pretty relaxed about it all, he was there during non visiting hrs but always went home to sleep. It can be hard not having your hubby around after such a huge experience, so thats a plus for going private. However I coped ok. Also I had my own room, I stayed for 5 days & had a lot of breastfeeding support. Mind you I couldnt wait to get home, being confinded to hospital sucks hehe. All the best with your decision.