me again...I did that last post and then went back andread all the other replies. I just wanted to clarify that I wasnt referring to anyone who posted here saying they had a long labour. I'm talking about women who do the real competitive i was in excriciating pain for x long...oh yea well I wish in excruciating pain for x long... we all see them at baby showers terrifying first time mums. Not talking about women who say was x amount of hours from beginning of contractions or waters breaking and x amount of hours from when contractions got intense and regular.

I just wanted to clarify that as I honestly wasnt having a go at any one and didnt want anyone to ready my post and think I was