Sorry to have to dedate about this and take over your post widdly, but now i am rather curious.

I was told to consider having a c/s next baby because Lily was big and i have a small pelvis (she was 9lb 7oz) Now I had vacuum extraction which failed, so the doctor had to literally (sorry if TMI) get half his arms up there and pull Lily out himself because she wouldn't budge even with the vacuum. It was really traumatic for us both and i would rather avoid this for next time. I don't want to have an elective c/s if i can have a baby naturally but am scared that this will happen again. I mean, Lily was a big baby, but others have had bigger and have had a normal birth. So if women are born to birth that, what's wrong with me?