Hun, I went through the same dilema. I had my son who was stillborn in a private hospital. Dh stayed and we checked out the following day. DS two was born in a public hossy but I stayed in a private room with phi because it was really important to me that DH could stay. dH stayed the whole time I was there. DS3 in a public hossy, dh went home because ds2 needed him. I was in a shared room but ds3 was in scu for the first room so I really didn't care.

Tbh in terms of support, the public hossy and a public patient was the best care.

Spring xx
Thanks Spring. It's good to hear the perspective of another babyloss mama. those first hours are going to be so important. I really don't want DH to have to go home.