Thanks for the replies! I am not sure what I'll do this time round. I know I will miss my three little men sooo much but I don't know if I will get the rest I need at home. Even though my mil and dh will be there to help out I know I just won't be able to help myself!
When I had ds 3 one of my twins caught a staph infection when he came for a visit at the hospital so do not want a repeat of that!! I also don't want my poor 73 mil having to run after three boys under four! I have already had an ear full from my sil saying I expect too much (another long story that requires a thread of it's own!). Might ask around if anyone has left RWH in melb early and if so how often did they get visits.