this is a great thread... the anticipation is clearly felt over here my best friend had a baby recently and it was excruciating knowing that it MIGHT be happening, and then it WAS happening but went on for days! Yes, it's hard to hold back, I admire you distracting yourself from contacting her!! I caved after a looooong while and sent a message, but it was well received so I am glad I waited till when i did it! Hope you sleep tonight!