but I'm thinking of birthing positions for this baby, and with both S and T I used a birthing stool, which I found helped; I liked the supported squatting position. However, with T, the second stage was VERY quick, and I did have a slight tear. Nothing needing stitching, but I'd like to avoid that again.

So I'm thinking that perhaps leaning forward on a chair or probably a beanbag might be helpful, slow things down a bit. But... I don't want to have my butt in the air, and then poo.

I know, it's so stupid to worry about it, but I hate pooing in labour, and I've done it each time. It's embarrassing enough to have the midwives clean it away from the floor! The idea of... well, it's just a bit ew, you know?

So... I guess what I'm after is any ideas to try and slow down when there's that uncontrollable urge to push? Ones which don't involve other people leaning in towards my bum if I happen to poo