Epacris - I think EVERYONE is a natural no matter what the circumstance
Kelly, it's funny you should say that. I kinda got the feeling that actually he did say that to everyone, regardless of the circumstances. It was all about him making you feel comfortable and confident. And it certainly worked for me (hey, I even felt a bit special too ).

I think with an Ob there can be an auto distinction of a medical 'expert' vs 'passive consumer' and it's not a healthy thing...
I agree, with an ob, often, unfortunately, that's the default position. And yes, I also agree, it's not healthy.

you can still have a medical 'expert' and be incredibly empowered, natural and confident.
I am very proud to say that that's how I feel about my births. They are both the most amazing experiences of my life.

I LOVED my ob too, in fact he said exactly what Epacris said "You're a Natural!" (I see you're in Sydney, maybe we have the same obs )
I wonder, I'll PM you SweatPea.