I LOVE my obstetrician and his 'funny' little theories...

[Inertia]

I've never met an Ob I didn't like. Never met one at all! LOL.

But I do love medicos with positive vibes and outlooks. The doom and gloom squad drive me batty. Glad you had the kind of care we would all love. It really does make everything that much easier.

[SweetPea]

Epacris Fiona, thanks so much for sharing, I really enjoyed reading that!

I LOVE my ob too. I found him when I needed a D&C (my first pregnancy was a blighted ovum) and now he's been with me on my journey to DS and DD.

The thing I loved about him most was he would constantly say with great enthusiasm "You're a Natural!". Who knows whether I actually was natural or not but, it made me feel like I could be. Those little boosts of confidence can just make all the difference.

I LOVED my ob too, in fact he said exactly what Epacris said "You're a Natural!" (I see you're in Sydney, maybe we have the same obs )
I went to him when we having trouble TTC and he was continually supportive. He was also supportive of my birth preferences and basically sat back and let me do my own thing, his exact words were 'just do what comes naturally" he was only there just in time to 'catch' the baby!

[Schmickers]

LOL - Fiona, your OB sounds like he has a shoe and skin fetish...

[Epacris]

Epacris - I think EVERYONE is a natural no matter what the circumstance

Kelly, it's funny you should say that. I kinda got the feeling that actually he did say that to everyone, regardless of the circumstances. It was all about him making you feel comfortable and confident. And it certainly worked for me (hey, I even felt a bit special too ).

I think with an Ob there can be an auto distinction of a medical 'expert' vs 'passive consumer' and it's not a healthy thing...

I agree, with an ob, often, unfortunately, that's the default position. And yes, I also agree, it's not healthy.

you can still have a medical 'expert' and be incredibly empowered, natural and confident.

I am very proud to say that that's how I feel about my births. They are both the most amazing experiences of my life.

I LOVED my ob too, in fact he said exactly what Epacris said "You're a Natural!" (I see you're in Sydney, maybe we have the same obs )

I wonder, I'll PM you SweatPea.

[Lolli]

Fiona, it's fanatstic you feel so supported and comfortable with him

I have a midwife instead of an ob. I was just thinking after my appointment with her yesterday how she always makes me feel so empowered and supported. She has promised to be my adovocate as well as m/w, she has leant me books and DVD's, she explains things to me in a way that's reassuring and supports my desicions. And she never even bats an eyelid while ds trashes her office

[Epacris]

I LOVED my ob too, in fact he said exactly what Epacris said "You're a Natural!" (I see you're in Sydney, maybe we have the same obs )

Kelly, it's funny you should say that. I kinda got the feeling that actually he did say that to everyone

yep, SweatPea and I have the same lovely ob. Too funny.

At the end of the day though, what is important is that you love him and you trust him.

Yes, yes, yes

[satya]

Fiona - I just had to comment on the theory about skin elasticity. I think he might be onto something there. I gave birth for the first time aged 42 after having 3 pregnancies in 12 months. I am constantly being told how great my skin is and how much younger than my years I look. I also did not get any stretchmarks at all during the pregnancy & got very minor ones that emerged two weeks afterwards, which disappeared within a few months. Can't even see them now. I've never heard this theory before but i reckon he's spot on.

[Lolli]

Fiona - I just had to comment on the theory about skin elasticity. I think he might be onto something there. I gave birth for the first time aged 42 after having 3 pregnancies in 12 months. I am constantly being told how great my skin is and how much younger than my years I look. I also did not get any stretchmarks at all during the pregnancy & got very minor ones that emerged two weeks afterwards, which disappeared within a few months. Can't even see them now. I've never heard this theory before but i reckon he's spot on.

I'd be inclined to agree. I generally have great skin and no stretchies **touches wood** I've fallen pregnant 3 times on the Pill.

[Tobily]

It's great that you feel so comfortable with him - everyone should be so lucky!

I gotta say though, that the shoe thing really is a crock. Really.

There are some out there (often older) who still use their gut to practice and they are gems. I know of one here in Brisbane who does, and I had one in the public system with my first child. He was as old as Adam and I saw him for the first time at 36 weeks...he was like a grandad. He felt my belly so gently, and said "You've got a 7 pound citizen in there, and I hope you have your bags packed because she's coming sooner rather than later". There was no u/s or anything, he just ran his hands around my tummy. I've never had (or seen as a doula) an obstetrician palp a belly in such a gentle and intuitive way.

Four days later I went into labour and had a 7lb3oz daughter.

They're out there, but boy are they rare *sigh*

[Nelle]

Man Tobily, that sounds like a great ob. I've mostly been looked after by midwives in the past, but if I had to have an ob regularly for whatever reason, I'd be wishing for one like that I reckon.