i still remember the pain

[Party-of-five]

i had over an 8 year gap between DS and DD so when it came time to have DD i wasnt scared i had forgotten the pain lol there will only be 16months between DD and this bub...i have not forgotten yet.
im getting scared already
i was only in labour with DS for 5 hours all up and DD just under 2 hours all up without drugs so ppl say "you have nothing to worry about yours just fall out" makes me feel like kickin those ppl. my babies did not just fall out yes it was quick but it still hurts. I applaude all the ladies that have long labours i dont know how they do it.
i tried to talk to DH about it but he just said "its ok...ill be there" as if that helps to ease my worries Pffft

[danniellabella]

I'm terrified of having another baby because of my experience having DD. I am one of those ladies who had a long labour...about 36 hours! I had an assisted vaginal delivery because DD got stuck and tried to turn while she was coming out...took me about 15 weeks to stop bleeding and be able to sit & stand for long periods of time.

I'm thinking of seeing a councellor specialising in birth debriefing before TTC#2.

I hope that you're experience with your upcoming delivery will be ok and that you'll have a quick recovery