Hi all,

I wonder ladies..if worse comes to worse and bubs doesnt arrive on it's own and I have to have things kick started..do you think I can refuse a c/s until all other options have been exhausted? I mean is that fair to ask? I.E if labour doesnt start within 24 hours of ARM can I demand them trying something else to get labour going rather than making me have a c/s? Is that selfish? Is that too much to ask for?

My ob says he will only do ARM and then a c/s but I really dont think thats fair..what do you think? (he is only concerned about the risks. I know gel is out cos my waters will already be broken.)

Any advice??

Lisa