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thread: Making the labour room more home-like....

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    Making the labour room more home-like....

    this is a spin-off from Kelly's thread about homebirth as there seems to be alot of people who would love to have the quiet, peace and homeliness of a home birth, but for whatever reason can't/won't - me included.
    Just thought we could start a list of ideas to make the room in hospital or birth centre more homely for us, would be if we could be homebirthers!!

    I will start with my measly ideas!

    Pics of family around the room
    Own blanket/pillow
    Oil that you burn at home

    Um that's all I can think of - help me out wonderful ladies!

  2. #2
    Enchanted Guest

    * Maybe some gorgeous flowers if you have them at home.
    * Fave music.

    You have put everything down I would have Tan

  3. #3

    Apr 2007
    the Sauna
    1,995

    def oils and my own pillows ... my own pj's and foxtel

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
    14,222

    having the TV on in the background always made me feel more comfortable as the bl00dy thing is always on here through the day LMAO. But Dh and the midwives kept turning it off on me.

    ETA - and putting my clothes away in a drawer/cloest. The rooms in my hospital always had a cupboard for your clothes and it felt normal to put them away instead of seeing a bag.

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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
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    labouring in your own clothes. i spent the first part in my own clothes and it was much more comfortable, but i forgot my labour bag and didnt have a spare set, so when my waters kept gushing those became too uncomfy, so i had to switch to the rather unglamorous hospital nightie. it felt too big and i couldnt put it on on my own (too uncoordinated and the contractions were taking away my concentration). so this made going in and out of the shower really annoying.

    first thing i did when i got back to my room was change into my stuff!

    oh, and your fav slippers as tootsies can get cold...

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    Jan 2007
    7,197

    Thanks heaps ladies - will definately be taking my Peter Alexander uggs!

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    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Insular Peninsula - Sydney
    312

    We found music really helped - had an ipod hooked up to a good speaker system and kept creeping the volume up as the labour progressed...there were people wandering the halls of the labour ward wondering where the party was!

    Lighting makes a big difference to the environment too - some rooms seem to be pretty good in the regard, but you can always bring in your own light to soften the room up a little.

    Slippers - if you're going to be padding around a hospital floor in the room, or bathroom then something to have on your feet is better than cold tiles.

    Cups or Mugs - cuts down the number of trips to the ice machine, and it's much nicer to hold than the disposable things that the hospital supplies.

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    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Melbourne
    1,798

    Nice idea Tan!

    Already great suggestions!

    I would definitely go my own clothes and slippers (although gotta be prepared for the fact that they might get messy lol!).
    Fave music/DVD's?
    Your own drink bottle.

    I agree with the lighting - I couldn't stand the bright hospital lights so we turned them off and DH asked my mum to bring in my bedside lamp, worked a treat and helped me to relax more. Of course the lights had to get turned back on at the business end of the birth.

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    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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    do they let you burn your own oils in the hospital? do they let you dim the lights and have a few candles burning?

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    Feb 2008
    Down Under
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    slippers are number 1 for me!!
    good cordial, i hate water

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    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Insular Peninsula - Sydney
    312

    I'm not sure about the wisdom of naked flames in rooms with plumbed in oxygen systems....just doesn't seem like a good idea if you know what I mean!

    You can get electric oil burners for fragrant oils if you want that sort of thing...

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    Registered User

    Jun 2005
    USA
    3,991

    I turned up in very established labour- I think that helps cause you hardly care by then!

    The best thing we brought were 5 pillows- it was great to use them in labour knowing what they felt like and then perfect for sleeping afterwards.

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    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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    I'm not sure about the wisdom of naked flames in rooms with plumbed in oxygen systems....just doesn't seem like a good idea if you know what I mean!

    You can get electric oil burners for fragrant oils if you want that sort of thing...
    Deh me, how true!

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    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
    376

    The hospital I'm going to has electric oil burners, just an idea if you can't have a naked flame in the room.

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    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Melbourne
    50

    Hadn't thought about candles not being a good idea. Any suggestions for a way to safely mimic candlelight? I find there is something soothing and comforting about the flickering light of a candle, I need to be able to recreate that!

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    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    Most hospitals either provide or recommend an electric oil burner for that reason I think. Not silly at all kitt3n!

    tsgirl - Maybe you could take some of those plug in night light things????

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    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Melbourne
    50

    Good thinking Tanstar!!

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Jun 2005
    USA
    3,991

    There is a thread here somewhere where Kelly mentioned some gorgeous sounding battery operated fake candle lights (some hospitals wont let you plug in your own electics either!)... she mentioned to me a while ago that she she was thinking of tracking them down again. We should hassle her to find them and start selling them!

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