I agree. You deserve to be kept fully apprised of what's going on. You deserve answers. That's why you need to ask to speak to the patient advocate or social work team. They will help you if you dont feel strong enough to get the information you need.

In the last few pages you have said you are being denied food, kept from your husband (even though you have been in a birthing suite), not receiving adequate pain medication, not being allowed to recharge your phone by nurses, been ignored and dismissed by both nurses and doctors and basically been kept in the dark about what is going on. These are the things that people are reacting to. Nothing wrong with venting but what I am saying is if your treatment has been substandard, the only way it will change is to get tough with the hospital - or have someone get tough on your behalf (whether it be a social worker, patient advocate, your DH, your Doula, family or friend).