Beansbeans - we did think about the possibility of taking DD with us to the hospital. Don't know hospital policy though. Seeing my ob tomorrow so will hopefully get some info from him. Trouble is DD is very curious and a very fidgety little girl there is no way she would stay entertained if labour is a few hrs long!

Bengal - so kind of you to offer to babysit! FDC is another great option suggested. Feeling a little unsure about how DD will take it. She goes to occasional childcare sometimes and has formed a really good relationship with one of the carers there, who also adores DD ! Might be worth asking her I guess.

BG - thats' what I'm worried about - DD getting stressed about being left with someone else. I don't have much of a choice though, huh?

Dragoncookie - having bub at St V's . will call them to see what options they have.

Artechim - It will have to be the same for us if we can't find anyone. We thought of maybe getting a doula to help me while DH stays with DD. Would be such a shame for him to miss the birth though

Thanks ladies, so many great suggestions here! I'm getting excited that we may finally work something out! BB rocks !!