Tips for the stinging on the loo - get something like a saucebottle filled with water and squirt yourself while urinating. Make the most of the shower when you are in there and pee in the shower. If you don't have it already, grab some Ural (its a urinary alkaliser - hope spelling is right), which will help to take out the sting too.

Lots of salt baths will help healing as well as some arnica (its a well known homeopathic treatment for healing, surgeons even recommend it!) so you can get that from a naturopath or health food store. It helped me recover from a surgery, the bruising and swelling went away quick! Might be worth seeing a good naturopath to help you with all the things going on, to help you feel better.

The thing is varicose veins, pelvic floor issues - can all be caused from the weight and pressures of pregnancy so it's a fallacy that c/s will prevent these issues.

Hang in there, it will get better every day, keep reminding yourself that. The things above can help it happen faster.