Well yeah, second time around you'd think I'd have a clue, but I don't

So I have no idea what to look/feel for really, in labour starting, as PROM gave it away last time LOL.

I've been feeling pretty clueless about what to expect too, and I can't remember really what my first few contractions felt like with DD! I also has PROM with DD, which as you say, gave it away that things were going to happen!! The other thing was DD was posterior, and so the mw and things I keep reading mention posteriors being a back labour. I can't remember where I felt the contractions, and it being my first didn't realise that they weren't normal. I'm sure that once things really happen, it will be obvious

that its not real labour just yet!