Oh that sort of statement makes me cross... You birthed/delivered your babies - he "caught" it. It's just a big ego trip... *she says grrrrrrr and pfffft*....

I can't prompt enough women to engage a Doula or a private midwife. Birth takes up all your energy and it is so helpful to have another woman with a good sound birthing knowledge to support you. AND to advocate for you...

Birthing on your back is convenient - it's eye height, it's all lovely... But not for the mother - unless that's where she organically goes...

Birth should be mother led. The mother wants to dance - we all dance even if we hate the music. The woman wants to be in the shower - we all get wet. This leads to the best outcomes FOR THE MOTHER AND BABY...

much love to you honey - I wish you the birth ofyour choice...