I had no choice but to have a cs. I am very litte 4ft 8. My ob gyn basically put it like this. You will need cs. If waters break it is bye bye baby. Yes scared the cr@p out of me. I had scheduled cs and had spinal. Was awake the whole time. Got to hold DD while they stitched and cleaned me up. Got to breastfeed her in recovery. Loved every moment of her birth.
Was at first disappointed that I had to have cs. I also then was not able to breastfeed. Look at my DD now and have no sense of disappointment.
It was painful at first but not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. I was somewhat amazed. I remember it being painful when I first got out of bed but was surpirsed at how quick I recovered.
Yep I would do it all again if I was to be so lucky!!!!!
I hate to say it but you were lied to bigtime and he has basically coerced you into having a surgical birth for no medical reason at all. How do you think pigmy women give birth? That is so wrong it has made me really mad to read this.

Women of ANY height can give birth - mother nature knew what she was doing when she made vagina's so damn stretchy. My mother, who is 5ft 1 gave birth to my sister who was 10lb14oz, 60cm long with massive shoulders with not a single tear or stitch, flat on her back with no drugs.

Sorry for the big rant, its just that crap like this makes me really mad.